I've learned

I've learned that no matter how much I care, some people are just assholes.
I've learned that it takes years to build up trust, and it only takes suspicion, not proof, to destroy it.
I've learned that you shouldn't compare yourself to others. They are more screwed up than you think.
I've learned that the people you care for most about in life are taken from you too soon and all the less important ones just never go away.